Billzilla1974 wrote:By your logic I can start calling you Joseph McCarthy, because I've never said anything that would warrant that assumption.
Pulling your morals from & making assumptions about people based on some TV show isn't a great idea.
I'm not pulling my morals from anything here, but judging by your reaction, you seem to have a pretty sizeable victim mindset. Just looking at your original posts detailing how it's the womens' faults for not taking interest in you despite everything you tried is further evidence of this. Again, I personally don't care about your personal life, but you're looking for answers in the wrong place. That, or you're looking for people to sympathize with your victim mindset, in which I just have no interest in doing.
So, again, I recommend you just try going out and getting laid.
I need to work out my social skills.
equal amount of effort in interacting/flirting as I would.
You can't expect a woman to put in equal effort in interacting and flirting if you're not good at it. And this isn't a good place to get advice for that. Again, as I said to that other guy, I've been in your shoes. If there's anything I'm saying here that you believe, this is it. Crying and begging for advice on a nerd-filled forum dedicated to a Japanese giant monster isn't going to get you anywhere. The only person that can help you is you. And maybe a wing man if you have any friends that can take you to a bar and "train" you. None of us here can do that.
I said in another post that I am willing to change and learn how to properly flirt and interact in a normal & respectful way.
This isn't the place you'll be able to do that, I'm afraid. As I said in a previous post, I'm not trying to be THAT much of an asshole. But the one lesson I've learned when I was in your shoes is that a solid dose of truth is the best answer. You are the only one that can change things. If you're socially awkward to girls, its because you're not trying to be yourself but instead the person you think they want you to be. Looks really have little to do with it. Its confidence. By the time I was 24, I weighed 240-some and I was still able to get laid pretty easily. Now I'm 31 and borderline settled down with a wonderful girlfriend and acting as a step daddy for her kids.
Try
http://www.pof.com. It's a dating/hook up website. Doesn't cost anything and you can hone your "skills" at talking to girls on there. Some will even listen to your venting. It's what I used to use years ago when I didn't like going out and meeting girls in person. You'll find girls that just want sex to ones that are looking for more.