Stuckey's "How to get the girl"

[wataru]

Well this isn't "how to get the girl"

but...

My girlfriend says her parents want her to date a guy who can drive and take her around. I proably won't be able to drive till at least a year from now She says her parents MAY force her to break up with me.

WHAT DO I DO?

She's lying to you. No father wants his daughter in a vehicle driven by anyone besides him or the mother.

[Crocodile]

Well this isn't "how to get the girl"

but...

My girlfriend says her parents want her to date a guy who can drive and take her around. I proably won't be able to drive till at least a year from now She says her parents MAY force her to break up with me.

WHAT DO I DO?

She's lying to you. No father wants his daughter in a vehicle driven by anyone besides him or the mother.

Well if they rack up a large gas bill acting as personal taxi, they might.

Still that's a really good point Watsy.

[wataru]

Well if they rack up a large gas bill acting as personal taxi, they might.

Still that's a really good point Watsy.

Father's only allow one person to drive their daughter(s): the mother.

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

Well if they rack up a large gas bill acting as personal taxi, they might.

Still that's a really good point Watsy.

Father's only allow one person to drive their daughter(s): the mother.

Or in some cases, the elder sister/brother (if she has one).

[Dash 7]

Well she broke it off because of her mom allegedly....


FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

[omgitsgodzilla]

Shit, dude. That's harsh. Parental interference can be some major bullshit, man.

Just read Shakespeare if you don't believe. It can result in multiple deaths, including the couple.

In all seriousness, I've had some lame reasons given to me, and that is pretty skreeonk lame. Sorry to hear that happened, man.

[TheSecondComing]

Well she broke it off because of her mom allegedly....


FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Impregnate her. Then they will want you around.

Also, don't take this advice seriously.

[wataru]

Well she broke it off because of her mom allegedly....


FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

You need to stop dating girls.

[HikizuruBeat]

Well she broke it off because of her mom allegedly....


FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Impregnate her. Then they will want you around.

Also, don't take this advice seriously.

Oops my ex boyfriend took your advice with his current gf who's 16.

[SaiyanRider54]

Looks like I may have got the girl without even trying.
She asked me if I wanted to sit next to her when we watch this movie in class. So I sat next to her and one of her freinds told me to go out with her. They said she would say yes because the read it in her book (I'm assuming her diary). So I guess I'll ask her out soon then.....
I'M SO NERVOUS

(This is the same girl I mentioned before BTW)

[HeiseiGodzilla117]

Looks like I may have got the girl without even trying.
She asked me if I wanted to sit next to her when we watch this movie in class. So I sat next to her and one of her freinds told me to go out with her. They said she would say yes because the read it in her book (I'm assuming her diary). So I guess I'll ask her out soon then.....
I'M SO NERVOUS

(This is the same girl I mentioned before BTW)

If you've gotten to know her pretty well without becoming close friends, now is a good time to do it, man.

[SaiyanRider54]

Looks like I may have got the girl without even trying.
She asked me if I wanted to sit next to her when we watch this movie in class. So I sat next to her and one of her freinds told me to go out with her. They said she would say yes because the read it in her book (I'm assuming her diary). So I guess I'll ask her out soon then.....
I'M SO NERVOUS

(This is the same girl I mentioned before BTW)

If you've gotten to know her pretty well without becoming close friends, now is a good time to do it, man.

I'm going to wait a little while and get to know her better. She seems like a nice girl though.

[Dash 7]

Well she broke it off because of her mom allegedly....


FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

You need to stop dating girls.

Start dating women huh?

When I turn 21 we'll see bout that.

[Grayshot954]

(Thanks)

[HeiseiGodzilla117]

I was in that exact situation all throughout highschool, Grayshot. If you want my advice: Move on. It's the best thing you can do. Start talking to other girls and you'll stop thinking about her. I was in immense pain over a silly crush and it robbed me of my time and because of it I didn't take up offers I had from other girls who were really sweet and cute. Now they've all moved away, so I screwed myself over. You can't stay hung up on one girl, especially if you aren't even dating her. If the opportunity arises, you might try it. But don't stay so focused on her. It's REALLY not healthy. Just take some other girls out on a date for fun. You don't have to necessarily like them, but it will definitely take your mind off of it.

[TokyoVigilante]

What HG117 said is the truth. It's also not worth risking your sadness about a little relationship make you resentful or bitter and spoil a friendship. I've been in similar positions before and ultimately us being friends was more rewarding in the long term then if we dated.

[Tim85]

While I do agree with what has been said, it's hard. Take it from me, you will get over it. It may take some time but only when YOU'RE ready. I'm sick of people who just say move on, get over it like you should automatically. Eventually you'll just get sick of being upset and in a funk and you'll snap out of it. Believe me, it's something I've done A LOT. In fact right now, I'm still a little disappointed that it didn't work out with my hairdresser but I'm so pissed about being lied to by a woman AGAIN that I've quickly gotten over that.
The next thing you'll know, you'll be flirting with someone and that'll give a boost of confidence, trust me.

[Crocodile]

My heart sank. I literally entered a sadness I hadn't felt since my dads unexpected death. After a week in this state, I brought myself together with the notion I could wait. So that is what I did to this day. So we have hung out multiple times, and I have subsided my feelings so she wouldn't know. I trickertreated with her on Halloween, gave her a custom Christmas card and other things. I still message her, still get her a Skybar (Which I get basically free where I used to work) whenever I hear she is facing a rough time. (Her favorite candy bar). Send her my finished KWC matches to read (Which she enjoys unlike Titano ). She noted I was pretty much her best friend and I hang our with her more than any other her other friends. Now I have on mutiple instances tried to put it behind me, talk to girls at my college. Tried to find someone else but every time I find myself falling for her again every time I see her. So now Stuckey you know my situation. Any advice?

You sound like me a little while ago. My advice? Drop her like a bad habit.

[wataru]

Yup HG's situation is why I dont keep platonic female friends, or believe men and women can truely be platonic friends.

[Goji]

True heartache is one of the worst feelings anyone can feel, and moving on from such a thing doesn't happen overnight. When people tell you that " you gotta just get over it man", it's almost condescending, especially if said person has never experienced what you're going through. Seriously, these things take time.

My solution to remedy a similar situation from a while back, was to force myself to go out with other girls (whether they be potential love interests, or just a friend). You may be bitter about things for a while, and may even ignore advances from other girls, but that fades in time. (Of course, everyone's mileage will vary).

As for "dropping" girls that reject you? It's for the best, but I'd be lying if I said it's something I've actually done myself. It's a lot harder than it seems.