Rogue wrote:All I can tell you is go ahead if you want, but you're just spinning your tires. The best you can do is get in good with her friends, then her friends will basically push her into your arms. But I assure you, no matter what the other intellectuals on here tell you, no matter how up beat and supportive they sound, I can guaran-effin-tee you that none of them had relationships in high school that lasted longer than 6 months after school
I dated a girl when I was in high school, and we stayed together for two years into my college. Tons of people stay with the person they date in high school for a long time, and sometimes they even marry. I'm sure you know this, so I wonder why you'd deliberately say something so obviously untrue.
I also think what you said about girls "looking forward to college so they can slut out" is pretty sexist. You've said a number of this of this nature in this thread. Do you have a low opinion of women? You seem to generalize them in disparaging ways, especially when you say things like, "Fat chicks are going to be slutty."
Well I'm glad your super in touch with your feminine side, sunshine. But I'm pretty observant. For instance, my generalization of fat chicks tending to be slutty is from 5 years trolling bars and college campuses, not to mention weddings, doing karaoke with a business partner I met here in Batavia as a night job for extra money. Now from just watching... watching mind you, I can see the heavier women out there, patrolling from guy to guy until they find one that is either A. into fat girls or B. drunk enough to like her. Now again, that's not to say they're patrolling the uglier, fatter section of guys, oh no, they don't do that until they've exhausted all the 'normal' or 'hawt' guys first.
They land one of these guys' attention, then they come up to me and request Baby Got Back or some auto-tuned song about sex, then they become make-shift strippers on the dance floor, and I assure you, nothing is off limits to these women. However, at some point usually, the 'hawt' guy loses interest or has to leave, and said large woman will troll the crowd again, looking for someone to fill her self-esteem void.
Now again, you glass is half full, super ultra sensitive, well to do guys who think that's just sexist and all made up... well, good on ya for having never seen the real side of people desperate to hook up. I have. In fact it's usually every weekend I'm not at the station. I don't know who you're impressing or sticking up for, but I assure you, these are just general observations stemming from a long time of watching girls with low self esteem go to great lengths to land her ideal guy in bed.
And high school girls, yes sir. Yes sir I do have a low opinion of them. I watched girls in high school incessantly taunt their less pretty classmates, or taunt their fat girl classmates, watched good natured guys approach girls to date them, but because their vulture like friends were always around to fill their head with who they should really date, these guys got crushed. I watched the popular girls go to parties and get high and get drunk. Then there was that day we all got called into the assembly hall and were told 3 of the girls from the class ahead of mine died last night, because they were all so toasted, they drove off an embankment, hit 2 trees, the second of which crushed all three of them on impact. Crumpled the roof into the car like it was tin-foil. And I remember actually feeling sad for these girls. I remember thinking 'Oh this is a tragedy.'
Well let me tell you something, nancy boy, I've scraped up enough teenagers off the pavement to know what I know. Rode on enough EMS calls to find 15 year old girls with white foam coming from their mouths, their eyes rolled into the back of their head and they're unresponsive, and where were all her friends then? Called dispatch and then took off.
Me? Bitter? F*** no. In the immortal words of Cyndi Lauper, girls just wanna have fun, right?
Just because you choose to see the innocent side, and only the innocent side, don't mean I'm wrong.
Now I remember why I stopped posting here.
It's not a choice - It's an absolute.