GinoKing wrote:A bit of an update, we should be going bowling tomorrow.
Is that code for "My ball is gonna knock down her pins"?
Found this online by the way:
Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't consciously choose who they are attracted to. Still, most guys think they can "convince" a woman to start feeling it for him, often by being "nice." Attraction doesn't work like that. In fact, attractive women instantly disqualify 99 percent of guys because they come off sounding exactly the same...like nice, but totally clueless wusses. That's actually a HUGE opportunity for you. Stand out as being different, and you'll get more hot women than you can handle, I guarantee it.
How do you stand out? Remember: Beautiful women have seen it all when it comes to how men approach them. Those compliments or pick-up lines you think are so witty and original? She hears them a hundred times a week. So instead of being nice, try busting her balls a little. If she's a lawyer, make a joke about ambulance chasing. If she's from New Jersey, tell her you remember her from that hot tub scene in season one of Jersey Shore. Just keep it good-natured and fun. Don't serve up what she expects to hear, and you'll shine brightly on her radar as a possible Mr. Right.
No doubt about it, fear of rejection is the main obstacle preventing men from getting dates with the kind of women they always dreamed about. Guys don't even try to meet a hot woman. The thing is, no matter how bad you screw up, most women will be nothing but cool with you. Most women bend over backwards to be polite, kind and gentle, so stop worrying about getting hurt. Approach with confidence, and it will pay off big-time.
Don't be vague about when you want to see her. Instead, tell her about something fun that you're planning on doing, and invite her to come along. Not only does this prove that you have a life (hot women will know right away if you sit home all day playing with your action figures or Xbox) but it also allows you to take control of the situation. That will put her slightly off-balance and intrigued—feelings she rarely experiences when approached by men—and that instantly puts you light years ahead of the competition.
Remember, simply being nice to a hot woman says to her:
"Don't pick me." When you first get into a conversation with a beautiful woman, stop trying to please her. Be confident and take control of the situation. If you want to see her again, get her number or e-mail fast, then make sure to be first to leave the conversation. This amps up her interest and keeps her thinking about you (while letting her know you have a life...a very good thing). Then use her info to follow-up and get the date at your convenience. Bottom line: Do just these few things, and you’ll instantly stand out from the crowd as the type of man that beautiful women feel attraction for, the guy who can approach and get dates with them quickly and easily. In other words, “the type” you never realized that you could be, until now.
WTF? I'm not asking for marriage, just a bloody date! It hurt a lot and still does a little.
