King Caesar wrote:Well here's a little question for you all:
Girl. In my class. Like her. Want to date her. We get along pretty well and joke sometimes, but it's hard to tell if she wants a relationship outside of school...so now what?
Here's a tip: Dating in school is a joke. Girls don't know what they want, they're easily swayed by their friends, and they let others influence their thinking.
All I can tell you is go ahead if you want, but you're just spinning your tires. The best you can do is get in good with her friends, then her friends will basically push her into your arms. But I assure you, no matter what the other intellectuals on here tell you, no matter how up beat and supportive they sound, I can guaran-effin-tee you that none of them had relationships in high school that lasted longer than 6 months after school.
The raw truth is that girls are looking forward to college. They can slut out, and it's okay, because it's college. There are very few diamonds in the rough in high school, and I assure you, if you have to ask a bunch of Godzilla fans if you should go for it or not, you're not off on the right foot.
Now, I'm not saying this condescendingly, but: Nut up, be debonair, have some confidence and just ask her if she'd want to go on a date. Tell her you think she's a classy looking chick, and you couldn't help but catch feelings for her. If you don't have the gall to straight up ask her, you won't have what it takes to keep her interest. If you pussyfoot around everything, you're just telling her that A. You're too much of a puss to get to the point, or B. You're not interested enough to just ask.
Don't be that guy. Know what you want, and confidently seek it out.
It's not a choice - It's an absolute.