What ruined your day?

[NSZ]

Well I saw that it was 61 degrees outside so I decided to take the dogs for a walk.

When I got out there, my nose was greeted by the scent of death. Considering the wind was coming from the direction of the farm across the highway, I'm thinking maybe the local coyotes got lucky and scored a kill.

It's a horrible smell, death is. Blah, I just know it's gonna be a while before that clears outta here.

[Gojisan866]

My girlfriend trying to kill herself... Again...
I honestly don't know how much longer I can keep her from doing so... It's getting more and more frequent and I've been trying harder and harder to keep her alive...

[SuperSaiyan4Godzilla]

My girlfriend trying to kill herself... Again...
I honestly don't know how much longer I can keep her from doing so... It's getting more and more frequent and I've been trying harder and harder to keep her alive...

My advice? Break it off with her. It's emotional abuse.

My best friend was faced with basically the same thing as you. He realized that the relationship is unhealthy and that it needs to be broken.

[PopInPicsPresents]

My girlfriend trying to kill herself... Again...
I honestly don't know how much longer I can keep her from doing so... It's getting more and more frequent and I've been trying harder and harder to keep her alive...

Call the police, they'll handle it. They'll put her somewhere and get her some help.

[Cimmerian Dragon]

My girlfriend trying to kill herself... Again...
I honestly don't know how much longer I can keep her from doing so... It's getting more and more frequent and I've been trying harder and harder to keep her alive...

My advice? Break it off with her. It's emotional abuse.

My best friend was faced with basically the same thing as you. He realized that the relationship is unhealthy and that it needs to be broken.

Yes.

At some point, we have to learn to release responsibility. This type of relationship will literally whither you away, I've seen it happen. I don't want to sound cold here, but don't let her destroy you because she's trying to destroy herself.

[zilla103192]

In the last two days I've sold items on ebay to two idiots. God I hate idiots.

In one case the guy waits until after the auction ends to ask if there's a cheaper shipping option. I told him no, the incense holder you bought weighs almost 3 pounds, there's isn't a way to ship it that will cost less than 12 dollars. He hasn't responded yet.

The other one waits until the auction ends to ask to cancel his bid on a inverter plug for the car. See, he didn't read where it said "USED." That and its impossible for me to cancel a bid after the auction is over without having to open a case against him.

I hate losing money because of someone else's stupidity. Mini rant over.

Which is exactly why I read the descriptions of EVERY item I think I might buy off ebay.

[SuperSaiyan4Godzilla]

My girlfriend trying to kill herself... Again...
I honestly don't know how much longer I can keep her from doing so... It's getting more and more frequent and I've been trying harder and harder to keep her alive...

My advice? Break it off with her. It's emotional abuse.

My best friend was faced with basically the same thing as you. He realized that the relationship is unhealthy and that it needs to be broken.

Yes.

At some point, we have to learn to release responsibility. This type of relationship will literally whither you away, I've seen it happen. I don't want to sound cold here, but don't let her destroy you because she's trying to destroy herself.

And we use the second "destroy" loosely.

Often times, people don't do this because they want to. Its their way of controlling a situation. They feel like they have no control and they do something where they will gain control. As you can see, its often through extreme measures.

[King Caesar]

My girlfriend told me that my best friend said that he "likes her more than a friend and doesn't want to ruin [my] relationship with [her] because [I] don't get chicks as often as [he] does". I was pissed, to say the least. He thinks I'm nothing, and he feels bad for me because I don't date sluts like he does?!

[wataru]

Id have a serious talking to with that dude. Your best friend wouldnt do that to you. Thats VERY prickish of him to say. Basically, he's calling "NEXT!" if yall break up.

[HeiseiGodzilla117]

My girlfriend told me that my best friend said that he "likes her more than a friend and doesn't want to ruin [my] relationship with [her] because [I] don't get chicks as often as [he] does". I was pissed, to say the least. He thinks I'm nothing, and he feels bad for me because I don't date sluts like he does?!

You heard this word of mouth from your girlfriend? How about you ask him personally instead? High School girlfriends, in my experience, tend to lie about their boyfriend's friends to get to him. Saw it happen dozens of times.

[King Caesar]

This isn't your typical situation. My friend is an incredibly jealous one, and he suffers for some heavy depression issues. My girlfriend and I both have long-time relationships with him.

[wataru]

This isn't your typical situation. My friend is an incredibly jealous one, and he suffers for some heavy depression issues. My girlfriend and I both have long-time relationships with him.

There's a line friends dont cross with others. Girlfriends are a line.

[Cimmerian Dragon]

I have to agree with Wataru on this. That behavior is exceedingly underhanded, and it's probably better to deal with it. Even if you ignore the whole thing, you'll probably never look at your friend the same way again. Confronting him may cause more grief, or it may allow you to clear the air and get past this.

[Living Corpse]

My girlfriend told me that my best friend said that he "likes her more than a friend and doesn't want to ruin [my] relationship with [her] because [I] don't get chicks as often as [he] does". I was pissed, to say the least. He thinks I'm nothing, and he feels bad for me because I don't date sluts like he does?!

Sounds to me that he's the sad one cause it sounds to me he can't make a serious relationship last if he's dating so many women in such a short time.

[HeiseiGodzilla117]

I have to agree with Wataru on this. That behavior is exceedingly underhanded, and it's probably better to deal with it. Even if you ignore the whole thing, you'll probably never look at your friend the same way again. Confronting him may cause more grief, or it may allow you to clear the air and get past this.

Cimmerian Dragon is right, particularly the part I bolded. Confrontation (Keep it civil) is the way to go. Tell him you don't appreciate what you heard from your girlfriend and that he needs to stop. If he is truly your best friend he will respect your wishes and your relationship.

[King Caesar]

@ CM: Yeah, I'm probably going to do that. Because it has gotten to a point where it's too much. And the fact that he totally acts peachy keen about it when we're around each other (yesterday at school) is even more aggravating. *sigh* /venting

@ LC: Like I said, he has depression.

[Cimmerian Dragon]

Good luck. Hope you can work through it and maintain the friendship.

[HikizuruBeat]

Stranded at school

[King Caesar]

Stranded at school

I hate when that happens.

Update on my whole friend thing: He is having a severe meltdown and has brought up committing suicide to his parents. I told him that I'm there for him no matter what. Because, frankly, I've known him since we were practically babies. The guy's my brother from another mother.

[Hellspawn28]

I lost my wallet at my Granpa's house and I can't find it anywhere! I really need it if I'm going to get paid soon and I have my ID in my wallet as well.