Stuckey's "How to get the girl"

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

Is there any way to get out of the friend zone? I wanna go out with my best friend, who's a girl!

I've tried to do that. Twice. Didn't work out. Like everyone else said, it's not a good idea.

Also, between this coming up weekend and next weekend, I should have a lot of "Do's and Don'ts" for you guys. Definately should have some interesting ones, that's for sure.

Well, I already have a few DON'Ts from experience.

DON'T tell a girl that you had a wet dream about her.
DON'T tell a girl that even though you wanna have sex with her, it doesn't mean you have a crush on her.
DON'T give a girl the nickname "Hot Stuff", unless she's known you for a loooong time.
DON'T comment on every single one of her Facebook photos with "I'd tap that".
DON'T ask a girl out on the phone unless she lives far from you. Which, in that case, asking her out at all isn't always the best choice.

[Dash 7]

Ok guys, this is how I've approached one of my friends!

Me: I'm interested in you, (name withheld), I'd like to get to know you better!
Girl: Okay lol my number is(withheld)

Where to go from here?

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

Simply call/text her. That's what I do everytime a girl gives me her number. If a girl gives you her number, she's more or less expecting you to contact her. Unless she's a bitch and gives you the wrong number.

[Chris55]

Ok guys, this is how I've approached one of my friends!

Me: I'm interested in you, (name withheld), I'd like to get to know you better!
Girl: Okay lol my number is(withheld)

Where to go from here?

Should have changed it up

"I'm interested to be IN you"

see what she would have said

[KaneLocke]

DON'T tell a girl that you had a wet dream about her.
DON'T ask a girl out on the phone unless she lives far from you. Which, in that case, asking her out at all isn't always the best choice.

Just wanna touch on these.

The first is valid... UNLESS the girl asks you something along the lines of, "What do you think about when you..." or what you dream about. In both cases, you're probably well on the way to a relationship. Just answer both carefully and tactfully. And the question will only come up with certain women.

The second... well, again, it's a situational thing. You can ask a girl out over the phone, but if you do, do it in an aloof way. Make it not a big deal. "So, you wanna go see a movie or something this week?" And never get into a long distance relationship... They blow. Not in the good way.

[Tim85]

One of my co-workers in the meat dept. I work at has been talking about asking someone from the grocery dept. out. I gave the recommendation not to because it could come back to bite you while at work. He told that I would be the last person he would take advice from because of my track record with the opposite sex (which is 0%).

I just don't think dating co-workers myself is a good idea because it could affect the working environment or come back to bite you in the ass if something goes wrong; especially if one or both people can't leave their personal problems outside of work. I don't even hang out with my co-workers outside of the store because it makes me uncomfortable. I like to keep my work relationships and personal relationships seperate.

That's my personal opinion. Am I wrong to think that?

And just because I've never gotten a date doesn't mean I don't know anything.

[gvamp]

One of my co-workers in the meat dept. I work at has been talking about asking someone from the grocery dept. out. I gave the recommendation not to because it could come back to bite you while at work. He told that I would be the last person he would take advice from because of my track record with the opposite sex (which is 0%).

I just don't think dating co-workers myself is a good idea because it could affect the working environment or come back to bite you in the ass if something goes wrong; especially if one or both people can't leave their personal problems outside of work. I don't even hang out with my co-workers outside of the store because it makes me uncomfortable. I like to keep my work relationships and personal relationships seperate.

That's my personal opinion. Am I wrong to think that?

And just because I've never gotten a date doesn't mean I don't know anything.

Coming from peronal experience no you aren't wrong I dated a co-worker once and it didn't work out and after that work got ackward. Ever since then my rule of thumb is generally not to date co-workers however if they are in different departments then it might not be an issue, I worked in a small restaurant so that's why dating a co-worker would be ackward, however a grocery store might not be so bad.

[GinoKing]

Well, I already have a few DON'Ts from experience.

DON'T tell a girl that you had a wet dream about her.
DON'T tell a girl that even though you wanna have sex with her, it doesn't mean you have a crush on her.
DON'T give a girl the nickname "Hot Stuff", unless she's known you for a loooong time.
DON'T comment on every single one of her Facebook photos with "I'd tap that".
DON'T ask a girl out on the phone unless she lives far from you. Which, in that case, asking her out at all isn't always the best choice.

No one can be this inept, no one, I refuse to believe you learned all these from experience.

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

Well, I already have a few DON'Ts from experience.

DON'T tell a girl that you had a wet dream about her.
DON'T tell a girl that even though you wanna have sex with her, it doesn't mean you have a crush on her.
DON'T give a girl the nickname "Hot Stuff", unless she's known you for a loooong time.
DON'T comment on every single one of her Facebook photos with "I'd tap that".
DON'T ask a girl out on the phone unless she lives far from you. Which, in that case, asking her out at all isn't always the best choice.

No one can be this inept, no one, I refuse to believe you learned all these from experience.

Long stories. All of them.

[Dash 7]

Long stories. All of them.

Just elaborate on the first and second points for me. I really wanna know why the HELL you would tell a girl you wanna bang her in the first place.

[Fairy Mothra]

Long stories. All of them.

Just elaborate on the first and second points for me. I really wanna know why the HELL you would tell a girl you wanna bang her in the first place.

it's not as rare as common sense would tell you it would be.

[Dash 7]

Long stories. All of them.

Just elaborate on the first and second points for me. I really wanna know why the HELL you would tell a girl you wanna bang her in the first place.

it's not as rare as common sense would tell you it would be.

That's an unsettling thought.

[Stuckey]

it's not as rare as common sense would tell you it would be.

That's an unsettling thought.

It isn't just from guys either. I've had several girls come up to me with the first thing coming out of their mouth being, "I want to do you."

Oh, and you can be cocky and get the chicks. I wouldn't recommend most of you to try it though. Just gotta have the right personality for that to work. After these next two weekends I should have some good stuff for you guys. So if anybody has any pick-up lines or anything they want me to try out to see if it works, let me know, hah.

[Dash 7]

I feel like I don't look good, but how can I make up for it by still being attractive personalitywise? what does a girl like you to say?

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

Long stories. All of them.

Just elaborate on the first and second points for me. I really wanna know why the HELL you would tell a girl you wanna bang her in the first place.

So this girl keeps thinking I have a crush on her. And I was at a party at her house. Somehow we got into a conversation about video game characters. So I was like "Yeah, there was this one video game girl that I have the biggest crush on." (AKA: Tifa Lockhart). Then the girl was like "Are you referring to that one girl who you said looks like me?" (AKA: EVA, who I said looked like her a few months ago). Then I just said "No, it's not you. Just because I wanna have sex with you, it doesn't mean I have a crush on you."

[FlawedCoil82]

I've had several girls come up to me with the first thing coming out of their mouth being, "I want to do you."

Oh yea, I have had that happen to me so many times.....and then I'd wake up.

[DrunkenGamer]

This is the girl that I like:



I've known her since the second grade, but we haven't been in contact continuously since then. I only recently met her again. Long story about that.

Anyway, what would probably be the best way to you know, catch up?

She models, by the way. Nothing to do with why I like her; I just like her as a person, you know?

[Chris55]

She models, by the way. Nothing to do with why I like her; I just like her as a person, you know?

Meh, I've had 2 girlfriends who were models. It's a weird job.

It's weird, I haven't thought about relationships since I've been on this movie but I was going through some old home video stuff and came across me with an old GF (NON porn btw). The chick was a crazy bitch but I tell ya, I kinda miss having a g/f. It'd be nice to have that connection again

[GinoKing]

Alright guys, I kinda skimmed through the thread, but now I think I need a bit of help.


Alright, so I've been friends with this girl for a while, pretty good friends. Well, feelings developed. So I kind of ignored them for a bit. Though, for some reason the feelings reached a peak this last week. Dont know why exactly, so I asked her out to see a movie. We went on Saturday, and it went alright. I dont know, some things were kind of awkward, but a good time overall. Even though I was late to pick her up(damn you google maps). At first I though I had messed up, but apparently she talked to a mutual friend about it and said she had a good time. So I guess my question is, what next? Not really that good with this kind of stuff.

[Xinal]

"How to get the girl"

The title of the thread strikes me as sexist since womyn are human beings not objects.