Stuckey's "How to get the girl"

[3000]

My girlfriend likes to flirt with other guys but when girls flirt with me, she really hates it. Thing is, I'm not the jealous type. So, should I become jealous when she does flirt with other guys?

That's skreeonk unacceptable.
If you aren't the jealous type, don't try to act jealous.. find a new girl, simple as that.
If she doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other dudes, she can skreeonk off.

[Shazam14]

My girlfriend likes to flirt with other guys but when girls flirt with me, she really hates it. Thing is, I'm not the jealous type. So, should I become jealous when she does flirt with other guys?

That's skreeonk unacceptable.
If you aren't the jealous type, don't try to act jealous.. find a new girl, simple as that.
If she doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other dudes, she can skreeonk off.

I think she just want me to be jealous, but I'll talk to her. I don't wanna breakup.

[3000]

My girlfriend likes to flirt with other guys but when girls flirt with me, she really hates it. Thing is, I'm not the jealous type. So, should I become jealous when she does flirt with other guys?

That's skreeonk unacceptable.
If you aren't the jealous type, don't try to act jealous.. find a new girl, simple as that.
If she doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other dudes, she can skreeonk off.

I think she just want me to be jealous, but I'll talk to her. I don't wanna breakup.

Even so, that's stupid. How old is she, 14? "She wants me to be jealous" just sounds awful, dude. lmao.

[Shazam14]

I know. It's kinda awkward. As though she thinks I won't move on. Silly girl.

[Showa Gyaos]

^Then oppose her. Swaying the issue can lead to worse things.

[gvamp]

Okay I have an issue as of sorts. I met this girl through a friend who's dating her friend. Well we've been talking for about a week and a half now (Saturday will be two weeks) we haven't actually met face to face because she's about two hours away. We where supposed to meet Saturday but couldn't do to her parents freaking out.

Everything is going great we talk every day and I've never clicked with a girl like I have her we're pretty much identical in personality and interests however here's where things get complicated she's probably going to be going into the Air Force pretty soon so I don't really know how she stands about dating so how should I bring this up to her because about a week ago we where both convinced we where heading into a relationship but now I'm not quite sure how to approach things.

I REALLY like this girl and would like to date her but I want to take things slow since I've gotten hurt so many times in the past.

Also another issue is right before I found out about this girl I my cousin who's older than me by about 20 years asked me if I wanted to take her step daughter to a wedding and I said yes so I'm confused on whether or not I should cancel this or not.

[KaneLocke]

My girlfriend likes to flirt with other guys but when girls flirt with me, she really hates it. Thing is, I'm not the jealous type. So, should I become jealous when she does flirt with other guys?

That's skreeonk unacceptable.
If you aren't the jealous type, don't try to act jealous.. find a new girl, simple as that.
If she doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other dudes, she can skreeonk off.

Overreaction, dude. Flirting is harmless. If she's the jealous type, c'est la vie. But as long as it stays at flirting, it's real simple: the one on the receiving end ain't the one she's goin' home with.

It's a nice principle and all, but some people are just natural flirts.

[Shazam14]

I broke up with her last night, bro. That's what you get for being late to the party. >:(

[gpulse90]

You go Shazam.

[Shazam14]

Ah, thank you.

[Stuckey]

Alright gvamp, if you haven't met this girl yet then that is your #1 priority. Just ask her out to dinner, a movie, etc. If she accepts-great. If she says she has other plans or sorta blows you off then try again another day. If she seems to be avoiding getting together then that isn't a good sign, obviously. Just make sure you don't keep nagging on her about hanging out. That'll make it seem like you've got nothing better to do, boring, desperate, etc. Going to have to use your own judgment on the Air Force thing.
As for the wedding, is it one you would be invited to even if you didn't go with that one girl? And if so, is it far enough in the future that you could ask the girl you've got a crush on to go to it with you if you guys end up going on a few dates? If not then you can still go to it and be that one girl's date, there's no reason you can't be just friends with a girl and go on a "date" with them.

EDIT: I think I was possibly too late in posting this. Oh well.

[gvamp]

We decided just to remain friends for the time being and we plan on hanging out soon. Just really busy for the time being so we can't meet till August its looking like.

As for the wedding I really couldn't take the girl to that since well technically I'm someone's date to it. Unless she comes up with her friend next weekend (her friend is dating my friend) then I plan on going to the wedding.

[Gojira-Fan]

I want to bump this thread because I think I found a girl at school who I like. This is significant because until now I haven't really felt I really wanted to be in a relationship with anyone I knew of, other than someone who was already in a relationship. So, I tried talking to her the other day, but I just got so nervous that I couldn't.

So, I wanted to ask, is there any particular way to help fight off nerves? Is there any particular way I should start off the conversation? Once I start talking to her often how do I tell her I want a relationship?

Any advice would be helpful.

[Biollante]

I made eye contact with her.

Where do I go from here?

[kikomia]

I made eye contact with her.

Where do I go from here?

Say hi, ask her on a date, ask her whats her name etc.

[TheSecondComing]

I'm in love with a married woman. What do?

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

I want to bump this thread because I think I found a girl at school who I like. This is significant because until now I haven't really felt I really wanted to be in a relationship with anyone I knew of, other than someone who was already in a relationship. So, I tried talking to her the other day, but I just got so nervous that I couldn't.

So, I wanted to ask, is there any particular way to help fight off nerves? Is there any particular way I should start off the conversation? Once I start talking to her often how do I tell her I want a relationship?

Any advice would be helpful.

Start with common ground. That's how I talk with girls in college. If that girl's in your class/EC activity, you can start off by talking about that. Like "Hey, you're in my class, right? Wow, that exam today was hard!" or something like that.

I'm in love with a married woman. What do?

Ask watsy.

[Goji]

So..this girl that's engaged that I met in one of my classes, has added me on Facebook, and is "poking" me, and says "she's really looking forward to getting to know me better ".

Umm...If I continue, I'll be playing with fire. Not really sure how approach this.

[KaneLocke]

So..this girl that's engaged, has added me on Facebook, and is "poking" me, and says "she's really looking forward to getting to know me better ".

Umm...If I continue, I'll be playing with fire. Not really sure how approach this.

Here's the thing. If it starts out as an internet romance, play it by ear. See what happens. Allow it to expand on the internet before you get to know her face-to-face.

That way, you can find out if it's WORTH playing with fire. She might be, might not be.

[Goji]

^ I mean, she seems really "cool", and someone I could eventually be friends with anyway, but I'm obviously attracted to her, so I have to "watch" my feelings, so to speak. I don't know weather to make it obvious that I like her, or to be more reserved. I really don't.