Stuckey's "How to get the girl"

[FlawedCoil82]

I've had several girls come up to me with the first thing coming out of their mouth being, "I want to do you."

Oh yea, I have had that happen to me so many times.....and then I'd wake up.

[DrunkenGamer]

This is the girl that I like:



I've known her since the second grade, but we haven't been in contact continuously since then. I only recently met her again. Long story about that.

Anyway, what would probably be the best way to you know, catch up?

She models, by the way. Nothing to do with why I like her; I just like her as a person, you know?

[Chris55]

She models, by the way. Nothing to do with why I like her; I just like her as a person, you know?

Meh, I've had 2 girlfriends who were models. It's a weird job.

It's weird, I haven't thought about relationships since I've been on this movie but I was going through some old home video stuff and came across me with an old GF (NON porn btw). The chick was a crazy bitch but I tell ya, I kinda miss having a g/f. It'd be nice to have that connection again

[GinoKing]

Alright guys, I kinda skimmed through the thread, but now I think I need a bit of help.


Alright, so I've been friends with this girl for a while, pretty good friends. Well, feelings developed. So I kind of ignored them for a bit. Though, for some reason the feelings reached a peak this last week. Dont know why exactly, so I asked her out to see a movie. We went on Saturday, and it went alright. I dont know, some things were kind of awkward, but a good time overall. Even though I was late to pick her up(damn you google maps). At first I though I had messed up, but apparently she talked to a mutual friend about it and said she had a good time. So I guess my question is, what next? Not really that good with this kind of stuff.

[Xinal]

"How to get the girl"

The title of the thread strikes me as sexist since womyn are human beings not objects.

[Stuckey]

Alrighty then, I guess it's about that time again.

@DrunkenGamer- Just ask her to hang out sometime. Nothing too fancy, just someplace where you can talk for a little while. If you've been friends with her for a while, then it shouldn't be too hard to just see if she'll go with you to the movies.

@GinoKing- Go somewhere with her again. You've already been on one date with her, now it's time to get the second date. Just ask her out the same way as before, because it seemed to have worked. I suggest somewhere other than the movies this time though, as you don't want to do the same thing over and over.

@Xinal- Uhh...my bad?

Sorry if this post seems sorta lacking, I'm on my lunch break so I just wanted to see what was going on in this thread.

[GinoKing]

I also meant to ask was how early would be too early for a second date?

[Dash 7]

My friend and i have started chatting over the phone and she says it'd be great if we could chill sometime. Where to go from here?

[KaneLocke]

"How to get the girl"

The title of the thread strikes me as sexist since womyn are human beings not objects.

Then it's a good thing we're talking about women.

[Spirit Ghidorah 2010]

My friend and i have started chatting over the phone and she says it'd be great if we could chill sometime. Where to go from here?

Uh, go chill with her. She said yes when she could have said no. So far, you're on the right track with her. If the first night is a success, keep on going.

[gvamp]

Not really a question for Stuckey in particular but for the whole forum in general.


What is everyones opinions on dating a friend's ex? The reason I ask is because over the past year or so I've noticed a lot of people starting to date their friend's exes. Which I find kind of odd since well it's usually a guy rule not to do that.

I'd love to get a female perspective too.

[KaneLocke]

From a male perspective? Go for it. I personally wouldn't care. But it's all communication between you and your friend. If he doesn't want you to, then it's up to you to decide what you what more: your friend or dating his ex.

[Fairy Mothra]

Not really a question for Stuckey in particular but for the whole forum in general.


What is everyones opinions on dating a friend's ex? The reason I ask is because over the past year or so I've noticed a lot of people starting to date their friend's exes. Which I find kind of odd since well it's usually a guy rule not to do that.

I'd love to get a female perspective too.

I personally wouldn't care if a friend dated one of my exes (and that's actually happened a few times with some of my best friends) but some girls really hate it.

I've also dated the friends of some of my exes, and never had any issues with that either. but it all depends on how close you and the friend are or how you both feel about the individual situation, I guess.

I think it's a case-by-case thing rather than a 'rule'.

[gvamp]

I'm not interested in any of my friends exs personally I just find it odd that it seems okay to date an ex but about five years ago it still wasn't cool to do so.

[GinoKing]

A bit of an update, we should be going bowling tomorrow.

[Chris55]

A bit of an update, we should be going bowling tomorrow.

Is that code for "My ball is gonna knock down her pins"?

Found this online by the way:

Attraction isn't a choice. Women don't consciously choose who they are attracted to. Still, most guys think they can "convince" a woman to start feeling it for him, often by being "nice." Attraction doesn't work like that. In fact, attractive women instantly disqualify 99 percent of guys because they come off sounding exactly the same...like nice, but totally clueless wusses. That's actually a HUGE opportunity for you. Stand out as being different, and you'll get more hot women than you can handle, I guarantee it.




How do you stand out? Remember: Beautiful women have seen it all when it comes to how men approach them. Those compliments or pick-up lines you think are so witty and original? She hears them a hundred times a week. So instead of being nice, try busting her balls a little. If she's a lawyer, make a joke about ambulance chasing. If she's from New Jersey, tell her you remember her from that hot tub scene in season one of Jersey Shore. Just keep it good-natured and fun. Don't serve up what she expects to hear, and you'll shine brightly on her radar as a possible Mr. Right.




No doubt about it, fear of rejection is the main obstacle preventing men from getting dates with the kind of women they always dreamed about. Guys don't even try to meet a hot woman. The thing is, no matter how bad you screw up, most women will be nothing but cool with you. Most women bend over backwards to be polite, kind and gentle, so stop worrying about getting hurt. Approach with confidence, and it will pay off big-time.



Don't be vague about when you want to see her. Instead, tell her about something fun that you're planning on doing, and invite her to come along. Not only does this prove that you have a life (hot women will know right away if you sit home all day playing with your action figures or Xbox) but it also allows you to take control of the situation. That will put her slightly off-balance and intrigued—feelings she rarely experiences when approached by men—and that instantly puts you light years ahead of the competition.




Remember, simply being nice to a hot woman says to her:

"Don't pick me." When you first get into a conversation with a beautiful woman, stop trying to please her. Be confident and take control of the situation. If you want to see her again, get her number or e-mail fast, then make sure to be first to leave the conversation. This amps up her interest and keeps her thinking about you (while letting her know you have a life...a very good thing). Then use her info to follow-up and get the date at your convenience. Bottom line: Do just these few things, and you’ll instantly stand out from the crowd as the type of man that beautiful women feel attraction for, the guy who can approach and get dates with them quickly and easily. In other words, “the type” you never realized that you could be, until now.

[Tim85]

One thing I don't understand. Is it so hard to say that you already have a boyfriend if I ask you out? Just say, "Thanks, but I'm seeing someone." Don't f***ing lie to me and say yes when you're seeing someone else. I've had that happen to me a few times.

That is NOT fun.

This may one of the things that contributes to my inability to trust just about anyone.

[HeiseiGodzilla117]

One question. I have a problem with becoming too good of a friend to girls I try to get to know. They always come up with the "We're too good of friends to date" kind of excuse... which kills me every time. How do I avoid that? I thought you had to get to know someone in order to get close to them as far as dating goes.

[DrKaiju1954]

I keep on finding myself liking girls that are in relationships with other dudes.Do i wait for them to break up or do i move on?

[Gorosaurus Rex]

I keep on finding myself liking girls that are in relationships with other dudes.Do i wait for them to break up or do i move on?

I personally say move on. Playing the waiting game is frustrating and it often seems manipulative.

I'm still struggling with the girl I mentioned earlier. She has continued to drop hints at moving into a relationship, but I dont want to assume anything. I also still don't want to screw up our friendship by trying anything.